Oct. 23rd, 2020 05:42 pm
I'm a classic man~
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thrillingdetectivetalesWent online and bought myself some more clothes with this week's paycheck, furthering my endeavor to expand my wardrobe in an appropriately masculine direction. I'm actually really looking forward to picking everything up tomorrow/having it come in the mail next week. Hopefully it fits okay, though I know I'll have to work on tightening up certain areas to really get the look I'm going for.
It's just a bunch of sweaters and joggers for the most part, but there's something to be said for dressing in the manner of presentation that makes you most comfortable, as it turns out.
I also had a good chat with my therapist last week about dating, romance, and my usual viewpoints on the matter as it relates to me, personally, which is largely: but why, though? She's sending me some reading to help me understand a little better why there's nothing wrong with that (even though I logically know that there's nothing wrong with it) and I'm considering whether I ought to divulge to the girl who's recently expressed an interest in me that while I like her very much and would be absolutely down to kiss her, there's probably never going to be a situation where I want to cohabitate or undergo any kind of commitment ceremonies or anything.
Not that either of those are anywhere near in the cards for us or anything—we've been on like one date and we live four hours apart so it's not like we'll be moving at a pace faster than glacial—but still. Could be worth mentioning, as I don't particularly care to lead anybody on.
I think I'm going to make my main goal for next week that I start exercising again and making meals at home, despite the persistent bug problem that appears to be focused in my kitchen. Surely I can make a sandwich faster than a roach can appear. Surely.
At least the weekend is looking pretty chill, by comparison. I'm planning to do a deep clean of the apartment tomorrow, including the fish tank, which is overdue, and then I'm going to do up a pinch hit for![[community profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png)
ficinabox and some kiss meme prompt fills or possibly write some 00Q sex pollen, because I've tripped and fallen into yet another different fandom. I've also got like, three or four Hannigram fic on the go, but they're mostly longer so they won't be seeing the light of day for some time.
I'm also doing NaNoWriMo this year to finish up an origfic in that magic universe I shared a snippet from not too long ago. If anyone is interested in starting a little group or cheering one another on, let me know. (My NaNo handle is "thrillingest.")
Hope this finds everyone well enough, or at least mostly comfortable.
It's just a bunch of sweaters and joggers for the most part, but there's something to be said for dressing in the manner of presentation that makes you most comfortable, as it turns out.
I also had a good chat with my therapist last week about dating, romance, and my usual viewpoints on the matter as it relates to me, personally, which is largely: but why, though? She's sending me some reading to help me understand a little better why there's nothing wrong with that (even though I logically know that there's nothing wrong with it) and I'm considering whether I ought to divulge to the girl who's recently expressed an interest in me that while I like her very much and would be absolutely down to kiss her, there's probably never going to be a situation where I want to cohabitate or undergo any kind of commitment ceremonies or anything.
Not that either of those are anywhere near in the cards for us or anything—we've been on like one date and we live four hours apart so it's not like we'll be moving at a pace faster than glacial—but still. Could be worth mentioning, as I don't particularly care to lead anybody on.
I think I'm going to make my main goal for next week that I start exercising again and making meals at home, despite the persistent bug problem that appears to be focused in my kitchen. Surely I can make a sandwich faster than a roach can appear. Surely.
At least the weekend is looking pretty chill, by comparison. I'm planning to do a deep clean of the apartment tomorrow, including the fish tank, which is overdue, and then I'm going to do up a pinch hit for
ficinabox and some kiss meme prompt fills or possibly write some 00Q sex pollen, because I've tripped and fallen into yet another different fandom. I've also got like, three or four Hannigram fic on the go, but they're mostly longer so they won't be seeing the light of day for some time.I'm also doing NaNoWriMo this year to finish up an origfic in that magic universe I shared a snippet from not too long ago. If anyone is interested in starting a little group or cheering one another on, let me know. (My NaNo handle is "thrillingest.")
Hope this finds everyone well enough, or at least mostly comfortable.
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If I were your would be girlfriend, I'd probably want a heads up, so that's a good idea. Maybe she wants the same deal!
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